I've always believed in trying EVERYTHING when I'm in trouble. How about you?  

I also believe we don't yet understand all the forces at work around us, so why not give good old-fashioned Southern Conjure a try when all else fails?

Even if you dont believe that herbs and oils can alter the fundamental reality of life , consider the value intrinsic to the ritual of spellwork. Acting out a ritual, such as the lighting of a candle, the saying of a prayer, the time and attention to detail required to gather and prepare spell ingredients, has soothing and healing qualities of their own. Ritualized behavior acts as a kind of mind-trigger, alerting your consciousness that you are serious in your pursuit of happiness, health or whatever your specific request may be. It focuses your desire, and requires that you name the thing you want, that you give it your attention.  There is a great deal of power in that act alone.  The more often you repeat the act, the more you strengthen your will to achieve it. 

So if you cant get comfortable with the idea that magickal forces are coming to your aid, view these rituals as a psychological exercise in mental focus. Then let them work for you. All I ask is that you try it for yourself.